Cutting Off A Narcissistic Parent Is Not A Loss

The loss is what I have missed out on

Jae L
4 min readFeb 24

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Photo by Marco Testi on Unsplash

I haven’t had any contact with my mother since my father’s funeral last August.

I don’t miss her. At all. I feel a kind of guilt due to being hardwired to believe I’m inherently bad and incapable of doing the right thing. But most of all I feel relief in not having to endure any more of her…

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Jae L

Queer, neurodivergent and in the business of defying expectations. Doing my best to answer the questions I keep asking myself. diverge999@gmail.com